DO YOU KNOW WHAT WOMEN WANT ?

A young emperor caught a  young man hunt his field . Put him in prison and told that it will release if answer the question :

- What does, in fact, a woman ?

The young man called and asked my mother, sister , cousin , neighbor , but none have been able to give a correct answer . Finally called a witch old and ugly . It promised to tell the correct answer provided by he will be released and will marry her .

With no other choice young man agreed . The answer was revealed witch :

- She actually wants to be mistress of his own life !

Emperor issued followed immediately. A wedding and the wedding night . But there was little surprise when in bed he found a very beautiful young girl who said :

- Because you kept the promise, half a day I'm old and ugly and the other half will be like now. Follow you to choose the half day to be young and to be old. Thoughtful young fell: laugh all he saw him with an old and ugly and night to spend the most pleasant moments with a young charming , or to walk on the most beautiful girl among men at night .... Finally the young man told her to choose how she thinks she's better. Immediately came the answer:

- I will always be young and beautiful because I found the man who gave me the freedom to be masters of my own life .

MORAL:

Does not matter ... if a woman is beautiful or ugly.

Eventually, everyone is a witch.


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HOW TO BE A MODERN WOMEN ?

A basic rule of post-modern society requires that for any representative of the fair sex is respected , a " best friend " is a must. Usually, the bearer of this honorable title changes over time and can not speak the same eternal friend . In general, a relationship of this type arise quiet punctuated the many rumors and wild escapades shopping. But no matter how mature it is, women have a little problem : not necessarily have to feel a little superior to her best friend . Not entirely, of course , not the front, but deaf spirit of competition is always felt in various forms. Usually a lasting friendship is to reach a balance of forces. For example, you are weaker - it's true, but she has a job more interesting and better paid . But when Mr. Perfect comes into play , balance breaks - one of you managed to win the " accessory " supreme value than any bag firm which automatically becomes the reason of more or less natural jealousies female. Of course, there are friends who will have absolutely no problem with your new love, but do not forget those for whom your boyfriend is either a goal to conquer or hateful enemy .

At first , he says that there is nothing unique about the man that you are in love. " I do not understand what he's special, but if you like ... " she remarks condescending and you sigh with relief - " well that does not seem attractive, because who knows what would go through your head ." Well, it is highly plausible that exactly what to think . After all , you shared tastes just are friends , right? Be very careful , her aura upper single girl can undergo a substantial modification before smallest sign that your new boyfriend and it seems interesting . How can you recognize a potential threat ? The kind who flaunt her feelings towards you and how important your friendship , but is tormented by personal frustrations and insecurities . Naturally, the sixth sense would be to do your figures right now , and if an invitation to coffee over the weekend ( three ... ) leave with smiles overly honey and a parade of deep cleavages by confused face your lover , take appropriate measures. Talk to him ( with her would be pointless , would irreparably injure and would deny to the hilt ) and suggest them to show an intransigent attitude , ironic . However , this kind of best- friend does not even have a place in your life , and if they persist in the attitude of the eternal " temptation" , give to friends until you wake up one story with an unexpected ending .

"It's a mystery how did you feel drawn to him precisely ," says your friend about that which he sees as the embodiment of absolute evil for you. Whatever he does , he dissects every gesture and every word to convince you of his evil intentions. The reasons ? It may be a genuine dislike , but most times it's pure envy or ... stupid. Privately , I want the good and even he thinks you do not fit . Of course your boyfriend is not interested in your drama if at all - even if you do not tell them it's ridiculous . If you wanna keep both relationships and hope for better times , the only possibility is to make peace with the idea that they should be seen more often than once per year on your birthday. And do not talk to him about it or vice versa. The bad news is that this type of friend you can not under any circumstances support if you have problems of torque. The " I told you ... " I will always follow .

Cruel , but true. Life can get you where you see how your boyfriend is " blown " very best friend ! You have neither the first nor the last to experience the bitter taste of betrayal , but watch for signs and act with caution. Can confirm your suspicions or speculations can be born from the love you carry for that " special someone " .

Typically, attitudes , gestures and hidden messages that you send us blow our true thoughts or intentions . Be sure that this principle applies to your best friend ! Intuition tells you that try to steal your boyfriend ? Carefully consider the typical signs and find her true face , before he invest time and energy in a toxic friendship .

1 . You around in front of

The first obvious trend your friend in an attempt to conquer your lover is you do in the face of negative publicity . We do our best to highlight your flaws , always relative to its quality . I will put you in a bad light telling intimate and embarrassing things about you , especially when you're not present .

Ask your partner about the things your girlfriend says them about you , and if they are mostly unkind (even in the form of jokes ) , put a big question mark on her plans !

2. Try to approach him at any cost

When you like a guy, you want to always be around him , is not it ? Notice the extent that try to sit as close to him to capture his attention and make him laugh. Also, see if you often touch palm on the shoulder or back , as gesture betrays the body language , physical attraction for the " comforted " by accident.

He offers to accompany him somewhere , just when you can not come? Here's a typical behavior of a woman who wants to conquer your lover !

3. I often suggest that you do not fit

Initially , it may seem that you are concerned for your fulfillment in love, but when they insist negative descriptions against him (although you does not it seem justified ) clearly sabotaging your relationship . As much as you would want good, can not you ever require someone to love !

4. Try to draw all the attention on her

When you are all three strikes you her provocative attire and how strongly the concerns you lover ? Speak up or " cat " , as if he really want to be in the spotlight ? It 's her way of proving that a game is better than you!

5 . Become competitive in the face of

Whether you play bowling , billiards, Monopoly , either discuss a topic of general culture , it becomes very competitive with you and it seems that it takes very seriously the competition ? Guess who " showing off " in front of your boyfriend to steal your place of his arms !

6. Contact him absurd reasons

Always finds excuses to contact the internet or on the phone, under various pretexts absurd to ask information ( you can find it and net) or borrow something from him . Undoubtedly , it sees it as just a friend !

7. He befriends his close

If ingratiate family , colleagues, and his cronies , gaining more ground in the fight for the win , so do not look relaxed habit of your friend . Even if you have mutual friends does not mean that it is normal to " suffocate " the mother , sister or brother, your lover .

When we love , we all enjoy a dose of possessiveness , lower or higher , depending on personality. As you less possessive But you can not remain impassive when one of your friends betray you and best signs that your boyfriend is interested , regularly flirting with him wherever he was , even when you are herein. Maybe they think that you do not see nothing of it. When you love instincts are strong and rightfully feel when your love is threatened and must stand up immediately .

Unfortunately, a lot of women find men more attractive to unavailable . Wearing a ring ? Comes with his girlfriend everywhere? Ah , I could be myself in her place ! Show all photos of her ? Oh you loved the job , I want him ! And I could go on forever giving all sorts of reasons. What we do but when the woman flirting with him and try and steal it 's really a good friend of yours ? You can rest easy thinking that if you go to the bathroom only to leave them alone five minutes ? Here are some tips to tackle .

1. Talk to her and explain what 's bothering you : If you see her flirting with him and trying to seduce him , the first thing you can do is to tell him directly that this bothers you . If you are in public , take her by the hand into a private place and try to talk to her as man to man . Explain ( if she knows ) that you need respect from them , since you're such a good friend . And respect is not a fad but a necessity in a normal friendly relationship .

2. Do not accept excuses like " it's just a flirt " I speak but she finds the kinds of excuses to try to appease you . Unless that friend that just flirts with everyone , including the elderly of 95 years at the bar , do not believe . Never flirting is not just a flirt and all that we know well .

3. And you flirting with the one you love her, make her realize this the way you feel and you : If nothing else, can he give such a life lesson . You see flirting with waiter in pizza ? And you flirting with him. Certainly will not mind. But while you understand and how it makes you feel when you are trying to seduce her boyfriend.

4 . Do not Let it around your lover : You already talked to her. He seemed to understand but no sign would have changed his attitude . What are you left to do ? Spend increasingly less time with her and when you do, you go alone, without boyfriend . Give them as less likely to see it and to test him power of seduction. At some point you will ask which is why its social exclusion and you have the opportunity to discuss the issue again. Who knows, maybe in the last moment she understands .

5. If all your attempts are without tracking, ending the friendship: If her behavior does not change and continues to ignore your feelings and end the friendship with her. Not a true friend and do not need such sneakiest people around you.

I hope these tips help you keep your beloved close, or who knows ........................... to stealing of others . CARPE DIEM !

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WHY WOMEN PREFER BAD GUYS ?

Women when they meet at night to catch them talking about them. Their blood and pulse heats them increases with the number of coffee cups emptied and filled with cigarette butts . Time passes at a speed that makes them think if not , they know something scientists say that in recent decades, day decreased by about 10-15 % .

The bad guys you attract women as moths are turning blind every time the bulb hot. With wings burnt them back again and again, as if this would be his destiny. Because they know to slam in bed like no other. Because their arms arms and sometimes beat them such a defeat is all they need . Because their embrace, although it hurts, it's alive and others prefer whole leaves . Because they like to arrange the bones in place after they came out of their lives.

 Feminists protest . They say that a woman who leaves her arms lost in such a slave , was not released, she did not understand CS deserves respect. As a victim who falls for an executioner. Syndrome that carries a name . Maybe that's right Or maybe put above respect, a certain vortex, some drunk, a loss of self, that only the bad guys are able to inject a poison and blood to her .

The bad guys know how to hand poked in all that good . Good guys waiting to happen . The bad guys do not beg love, but a claim as their right as inalienable. Good guys do pancakes and serve them breakfast in bed , country boys grabbed unsuspected paths and drag them , and they follow them . Good guys walking around with their carriage and bring wicked able to do even bungee -jumping and to the scariest roller- coaster .

Why we love bad boys ? Because they go where no one would dare to go . Look in a second everything he learned his mother , magazines women and life before. In case anyone ever heard . Because behind the look " polished " the woman of our times is their makeup sex , unadjusted unvarnished all the fireworks. Every woman will experience , at some point , the myth of " wild stallion " looking for the man that no other woman had failed to " tame " and to " ride " . From this they try to extract a guarantee that if they will soften , then only they will be the ones who will ride him . It ultimately control primary desire.

On top bad guys , writes great " suicidal tendencies ." While the good guys promise life , bring the bad guys dead . But death charming, even spectacular . What women do not understand is that the bad guys die alone. They will not grab them take arms in their last moments . They will be cast in the same grave, will not last trip with them . Because bad guys are lone wolves , and they are only transient in their lives, nothing more.

Good guys do not have to despair . Probably they will walk them down the aisle. They will bear children . This after will not have anything arranged, nothing broken and will thanks pancake , booties and " Kisses " on the forehead evening.

 Undoubtedly women are enchanted by the bad guys , but not long term.

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HOW TO BE A SMART GIRL

Every man wants a smart partner, no doubt . The intelligence of a woman is, unquestionably, sexy : men melt after women have opinions that can participate in conversations more complicated than " Have you seen that new clothes from …. ? "                                                                                                             

A hot mind and a strong personality who fail are aphrodisiacs . A woman who exudes confidence word is a treasure for those who reach it. However , because there is always a but ... no man can stay a long time with a woman always ready to argue , no matter how good they are opinions .

All run by a woman who tells you , the tone bluntly , that 's the truth or is the claim that all around her are far inferior.

It's interesting and not reprehensible to have demands on those around you , and men crave women who do not settle for less . From here to the woman who They work all energies for financial benefits is a long ...

And men are wary of this type of woman is not necessarily because they are afraid of failure , but because they want to be loved above all for what they are and then they will hold . It's understandable - we all want it.

Every man dreams of a woman powerful influencers who are not lost between being or not being , but little imagining that sometimes these women are dangerous . More specifically , only after I meet a lady / lady ' I'm always right ! " Gentlemen realize what they really want .

In any capacity , as beautiful as a woman who thinks he is always in possession of the truth or correctness of the man next scare . Stubbornness is basically an emanation of limited mentality !

Something is wrong with a woman who has the time and energy to do this - what would help her to know every move , you know all the details there partner blow his neck again. Beyond that is a sign of unhealthy possessiveness or absence of their lives sufficiently charged , a woman scares men because it gives the impression that it could ever hurt them, even physically .

Then went to the extreme passions , irrational extremes have a mental deviations in their structure.

This type of woman is something more than a woman who constantly pretends or wants to appear that it's not running woman men most is the one who is extremely interested only in their nets to catch them order to heal hidden wounds that left others.

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THE HUNTER

Years of marriage are leaking so light, you end up imperceptibly spring 38, a wife and two children. And at some point you notice that you are seen increasingly less and most of them do only outputs or only with children. And sleeping alone and if holiday is the sea, where they do not like, you get to go alone with the children.

And the sea is beautiful and romantic and two women appear and tell themselves, walk and at some point you realize: one of them even attracts you and you want to kiss her, and she refuses. But the next day she no longer forbid. And then, you ask her more and she refuses and ... and vacation ends. And I cried, yes, I even cried after her.

She is the youngest (31 years), most beautiful and smart, divorced, no children. Do you want, but how not to do comparison.

But the tale does not want it to end and there is still a meeting. Merely to show that it is not just a holiday story. But meanwhile achieved wife suffers and requires a decision. And with children between us is easy to take a decision. Public repudiation on Facebook, all of your problems and acquaintances are not you only have to feed yourself with the thought that you are neither the first nor the last in this world with such problems. And the tale goes undecided, a truce for a limited period at the end of 2013.

With new forces begin rebuilding marriage trying to give as much. But forget about the issue during his wife had probably never know the real strength and decades in the same boredom and routine. Interestingly bed are ok; tell friends and realize that, in fact, what we boast in this chapter.

But months pass and loneliness overwhelms me again. And coming mid-summer 2014 and send a message. And she responds naughty. I did not forget. And we meet and tell, I invite her warm smile, her eyes aimed throws sparks to ignite a fire that's actually a real blaze and finally she invited me to her. And I feared rejection, because the spirit protector of me tells me I would not want to suffer again for me. On the road the 200 kms to the house (which painfully separate us every time) I realize that they are among the few losers in the world who would refuse the opportunity to fully enjoy the moments spent with someone who yearned after that.

Messages continue obscene become dirty and exciting at the same time and she asks me directly. I'm reluctant to give an answer, but can not refuse to infinity, no train waiting so many times and would even offensive to her. Accept and meet. Yes, it is incredible, unreal, unimaginable for both. I am the god tan, she is the princess white, white, corporate workaholic untouched in mid-summer sun. The passion with which it gives me to compare it with an explosion that engulfs all the air around her.

Already after the third meeting feel that there need to provide a ring ... hhmm so fast, ring? about burn stages. Pass the test and buy the ring and realize that though she only wants an affair with me. The character somewhat constant, but still only an adventure.

After several meetings and wife realize that there was a problem. It was easy and as long as I did before love for hours, half the night, and was now half an hour waiting to be over before they even begin. Strangely, after a while found that she accept this infidelity. Why? Perhaps I was throwing a husband. I promise it's just a summer rain and I will pass.

And I sleep with his wife and once even the same day. In love? Out of fear she did not find someone? From compassion? Do not know, do not know. I feel like a bull but as a monster, a husband failed.

But incendiary nights that bring weight loss, physical harm me and her, break me any and I want to do anything just to be with her. Did loves me, is obsessed with sex or just never had someone recently? I'm not experienced enough to answer. I came along we thought long lost. And go on weekends together. And children ask me (worship me) why I leave one at the weekend; even without them? Become stressed wife bombards me with sms that I realize that much to me, and probably you as I care about her and the family. And she read me, is smart and intuits.

And after our weekend movies that tells me citybreak site that was between us over and get back to my house. Refusal vigorously and meet again. Sexual attraction is instant, but we stop ... just tell. I asked to make a decision. Then tells me she wants a family, not just to live the moment.

Wife asks me to resume our marriage a second chance. Not saying before, but the second chance was in the fall of 2013 when I quit once to it.

I propose that for two or three months to try to forget it and to devote myself to family and if you do not resist, that is, to take the most difficult decision of my life after 18 years of relationship.

Tell a friend passing and he admits that has never known such nights. Sorry, can I destroy and silence his marriage.

I can not sleep and can not live without it and not restrain myself to write. After two weeks I say that is happy. And it breaks me heart pain. Then write that I started a new relationship. Tremor at work, home and me quieter night run many, many miles from 10 to 11 constantly. I wanted to cry, that's why I chose the night, I do not see anyone. But I gave a tear. And neither was I tired, although I think a tear to my muscles. At least if it was a race track, I get something out of it.

Analysis and thinking that she did not mind, so probably trying to make family dreams on "fast forward". Or trying to hurt me to hasten my decision. But both solutions are to the detriment of her times is too libertine times is too selfish and dangerous blackmailer. Making it makes me start to sleep more than 4 hours a night, is a breakthrough.

They are often a delayed. And I'm glad I did not rush. How the hell did divorce after 2-3 months with her? I wanted to make sure I did not agitate for a fire of straw. However, it was normal to divorce before having a new relationship, do not forget that. I think I would have expected it a year. There are an adventurer, are just a 38-year romantic.

Wife is close to me still; and she is smart. If I would be asked to break up, I would have flown out the door, before at least to finish her ​​sentence. I always liked smart women.

She did not reply to my messages. But are becoming quieter. Now I'm sure he loves me not, or do not make me suffer. And I made ​​her suffer, but I was married, I could not escape so easily. Anyway not step on it, the attraction between us is too strong to still remain rational. You must think only head up. And I thought I would have to buy cot, pram, bottle, car seat, etc. and she me "forget" after 2-3 weeks?

I will not retaliate but never. I live with feeling slightly evil, that life will avenge her, when you meet another / others who will not pass all the tests that I've passed: romance, gifts and fools in two.

I feel free now. I know that my marriage can end anytime now; I know that his wife will be able to avenge me, but I am not afraid of anything, I just want to take care of children and try to love as much as life, without anyone around me to suffer because of me.

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HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIVE

A new study finds that for older adults, the more content the wife is with her marriage, the happier the husband is with his life — no matter how he feels about their relationship.

“I think it comes down to the fact that when a wife is satisfied with the marriage, she tends to do a lot more for her husband, which has a positive effect on his life,” said Dr. Deborah Carr, a professor in the Department of Sociology, School of Arts and Science at Rutgers University in New Jersey.

“Men tend to be less vocal about their relationships and their level of marital unhappiness might not be translated to their wives.”

Carr partnered with Dr. Vicki Freedman, a research professor at the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, on the study, which was published in the Journal of Marriage and Family.

According to Carr, the new study differs from previous research because it takes into account the feelings of both spouses to determine how these marital appraisals influence the psychological well-being of older adults.

The researchers analyzed data from 394 couples who were part of a national study of income, health, and disability in 2009. At least one of the spouses was 60 or older. On average, couples were married for 39 years.

To assess marital quality, the couples were asked several questions, such as whether their spouse appreciates them, argues with them, understands their feelings, or gets on their nerves. They were also asked to keep detailed diaries about how happy they were in the previous 24 hours doing selected activities like shopping, doing household chores, and watching television.

The couples rated their general life satisfaction high, typically five out of six points — with husbands rating their marriage slightly more positive than their wives, according to the study’s findings.

“For both spouses, being in a better-rated marriage was linked to greater life satisfaction and happiness,” Carr said.

The study also found that while wives became less happy if their spouses became ill, the husbands’ happiness didn’t change if their wives got sick.

“We know that when a partner is sick, it is the wife that often does the caregiving, which can be a stressful experience,” said Carr. “But often when a women gets sick it is not her husband she relies on, but her daughter.”

According to researchers, the findings are important because the quality of a marriage can affect the health and well-being of older individuals as they continue to age.

“The quality of a marriage is important because it provides a buffer against the health-depleting effects of later life stressors and helps couples manage difficult decisions regarding health and medical decision making,” Carr said.

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DADDY AS A MAN

He came smiling and trying to keep up with his little girl aged five years, which run glad that go to the playground where a bouncy castle was sending the children to the world of stories more or less known. He walked quite clumsy, making a visible effort not to be discordant in relation to the child's progress in the context of the playground and, more than that, it does not spoil the joy princess in pink.

It looked like nothing that would require it, he would have refused. It was a pleasure to see mature man and in many cases even imposing, now enjoying the happiness of the child, from the time of breaking his man, aside contracts, suppliers and customers, dedicating himself totally a baby man. Descending, in other words in her world he was the king.

More valuable than huge amounts of money they made in business and they make many other entrepreneurs like him, was that smile that he could not only bring him his daughter, and she was asking only for a little time and a little sincerity, and a little of what it was thirty years ago, few would have liked to have and he then, little of what has and can give without the risk of losing something.

He looked lost and instantly crossed my mind thousands of men faces serious and determined, mature and serious, winners and fulfilled, plictistiti become routine. Of all these, I prefer it, that he had time to show their feelings, to externalize the child from him for his child, to give him what heaven all we love: time and attention. He was a man who knew how to win and even impose respect for others, but was able to lie on the ground at the feet of his daughter without the slightest hesitation.

 And I felt that if he could give her time and love can give anyone, love does not end, love can divide indefinitely and thus multiplies. And so on all have failed in my hierarchy, and Metrosexual of expensive perfume commercials and charming leader, feared by all and charming with Maybach and genius billionaire who has science sexy little finger and all the footballers and all the famous actors and gorgeous eyes all aesthetic parts more or less artificial modern society never ceases to flood every day.

It remained only for him. He seemed to be that if all these extra man. Plus child. Plus father. And if you could do that, could make me happy and me, as does the princess, as it does on her, she was now at home waiting for him. What else would be like a woman and a mother.

The last time I thought about it, how it seemed natural and charming, filled with an aura that exudes innocence in his juru. Our lives took different paths from one point, but he has not missed any important moment in the life of his daughter. He was there every time and it filled her with a joy that see her every gesture.

Coincidentally I saw him one day, he was in a jeep and try to persuade a young woman on the street, go out for coffee. I saw: a man sure of himself, and he knew he wanted something sure to get. Try to sell well: expensive car, expensive clothes, well-chosen words, money. Who refuse it? The young girl on the street refused. I met again after a while. Do the same. First I refused to believe it. The second time I was despised him. Again a refusal. Why? I could not run to her and tell her: you know what can be wonderful? You know that warm and soothing? You know how to read you can give love to his daughter, just simple gestures? You know what is gentle and human, as few men know to be today? Why does it want?

And I realized that they have no guilt, they are what he wants, but they sell "product" in the wrong way. As they do not need a man with jeep and money, they they will noticeably, a man who has for princesses who leave carried away, innocence and candor, but him to conquer them becomes another, that another that he believes that women fall in love. And it is still a wonderful man!


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