HOW LOVE WOMEN ?

Above all, I wanted to see how it looks and I searched the internet. I found two photos, very different from each other. One had a slight smile, sad, barely started, and a full face unexpected gentleness. I did not know exactly why unexpected, but it was an amazing contrast there that I have not analyzed it too much. In the other picture, only features were the same. Otherwise, if it were another man. Eyes hidden this time as sunglasses, but faintly and made tandem with a smile, now wider, but the park closed in half, as if this man had not yet learned to laugh, and drew an expression slightly arrogant as if she could see someone else besides him. 

When we arrived, he was sitting at the desk and wrote something. I greeted him, as if I knew him all my life, and I felt both a huge curiosity to know really. It was rather the man in the second picture, that arrogance had taken place only a slight surprise but did not alter the expression of that stranger. He stood up and extended his hand to me and we said conventional name. I found unexpectedly high, although no more than 1.90 m, and the finding surprised me that I enjoyed and I think I blushed act. His smile was now a mixture of severity, curiosity and warmth.

I liked when we started talking, his balance and firmness, who came from stiffness, but a special kind of power, that seemed always mastered and circumstances and people, and dialogues. Then I could not let me gaze of smile that so exchange that appears when you'd least expect it and did not necessarily mean fun, but a delusion of complicity, as then disappear just as come and go let perplexed and empty.

With him, therefore, was to work on the project for two months. A study psycho-sociological called "How I love women" which must capture the differences between women and men in how to live love, playing as much as possible picture of emotional and behavioral completely, from beginning to end or in this relationship , based on case studies. Sample analysis was already chosen. We were supposed to interview "subjects" and state the theories based on conclusions that lead us stories. We did a thorough work plan and we agreed to meet after two weeks, when the strategy was to reconfigure, depending on the results to date. I invented excuses everything about the project to call him, because I was constantly thinking about him. I missed his smile, which was burning me, although I had seen him once. I wanted desperately presence, I wanted to be just a breath and touch me like that first day. But when we call him, he was holding me, gracefully and firmly away, although I suggest the tone is struggling unsuccessfully to be cold, that he feels the same way. And our phones continue. Day after day. More lively and impatient, and messages were increasingly transparent. I entered a dangerous game, but so sensual and intense that we could not miss it.

In those days I listened to stories of stunning beautiful woman whose unshakable power of love moved me. They were in love so simple and natural, with soul and flesh and life! Even when their husbands were one passion for another, they expected nobly, as a new love to pass. Or if they were looking to see, to comfort them and were always elsewhere, he answered with a smile unseen their absence, and remained there for when they would be back. I wonder if I have the high intelligence of the heart, to accept love with what might come. If I could give total against any events that moved me, however it would hurt. Or am I already had done? I decided to quit the study, it was beyond me to take him to the end. After all, what conclusions "scientific" we have arrived? And, especially, who would have used our analysis? Just then he looked evil. Let me say that he withdraws from the project. But he would like to meet, we met. I'm not surprised at all by the proposal, because the love of whack us, comforted us from the first moment.

Our story began when really, as a poem, uncertain and mysterious. With meetings, shy teenagers

undermined thousand fears. With downcast eyes and innocent touch casually, though intentional. Then I risked everything and more than we did growing. Dialogues have become more elaborate, and we each of them we have raised as distinct beings and strong and courageous. I recently dared openly to discover, then we hugged desperately and passionately, as if it would not otherwise have, until we've separated all. Understand, day by day, that I can not miss being of dual-shy when sad, you arrogant, that I was the pain-intimate close when untouched by far. Just like the photos that I met him first. But I learned to love him anyway were anywhere would be found. And I rediscovered, in turn, in our love. I was suddenly, all I knew about myself that I can be, always different, although equally: young, beautiful, free and happy. Soon we came to give a whole new meaning and simple gestures. They became our universe, a bed made after we raised it with memories huge life, a breakfast improvised tenderness, meeting with friends, an annoyance of the day, tears wiped love the cheeks, or sulk murdered with a kiss. Or small misunderstandings that we rise again, more loving and close. Safety and greatness to walk the streets like kings, knowing our loved and loving without measure, to death.

It's been almost ten years since we met. Thousands of days as starting and ending with the kisses of all, to which I respond with all my hugs. We thought at one point, our study recently abandoned. And we both smiled. We know more today than I did then? Probably not. Now we just love.

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THE JOY OF LIFE

I have forgiven mistakes that were indeed almost unforgivable;

I tried to replace irreplaceable people;

I tried to forget the unforgettable people.

I acted impulsively,

I disappointed some people and I was disappointed by others.

I embraced to protect someone,

I laughed when we could not laugh,

I made friends forever

I loved and was loved, but also have been dismissed.

I was loved and I could not love back.

I screamed and jumped for joy,

I lived to love and made promises for eternity, but still me, I ignored them.

I cried listening to the music and the photos,

I called just to hear a voice.

I fell in love with a smile,

I thought I would die of sadness ...

I felt the fear of losing someone special.

And I ended up losing him really ...

But we survived and still live.

Do not go through life without me enjoy it ...

And should not do this any more than you ... so ...

LIVES, enjoy, take advantage of opportunities.

Be decided, embrace life and live with passion,

Losing with dignity and courageous triumph.

The world belongs to those who are not afraid,

And life is too valuable to feel insignificant.

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MOTIVATION OF LOVE

Here's what woman said about why they love men.
Because they forget . No matter what, but forget, and ranks first birthdays.

Because they have a personality so complex that they think and coach and quarterback , and offensive, and will, and club owner. Besides being extremely passionate when shouting "Goal! "

For drink beer, drink their magical cloud the mind , we fragrant breath and gradually increases their waist circumference.

For vendors of computer games " came to meet the desires and needs of consumers " , creating games that take place in real time . That he can not get out of the house 17 hours because it has a fight scheduled at 3 a.m. and have to prepare.

Because there is no one in this world who appreciate more spiritual wealth of generous ladies bust skimped on clothes.

For I do not understand though is give the woman and indifferent in themselves never give in to marvel and wonder what he actually creature near them .

Because they are plumbers, painters, troubleshooters and other trades well known to the man's house , they practice at first, but trust expert.

For as their afraid of dogs, dark, take emotional "Love Story" and luggage are very heavy and can barely carry , but are struggling to hide this.

For tremble when they hear the phrase "we need to talk" , because not only talkative . Good luck with genetic mutations that "generate" and specimens that recovers to half the neighborhood.

Because they are the greatest chefs in the world , meshes with fries and ketchup as a delicacy difficult to surpass in delicacy and richness of flavor .

Because their lives would be too trivial without the headaches caused by the woman beside him , who broke one of her fingernails neat went to sock yarn .

Because some of the wonders of nature are representatives of their own : Brad Pitt, Keanu Reeves and others .

For mascara , eyeliner or pencil eyeliner is a stick . Same bat ...

For child sex chromosomes depends and still the fault of the woman that does not make it his own football team.

Because when I get drunk all recall the grievances of their lives and recognize without much virility that we love .

For the list goes on ...

And yet ... why men love ? . . . Why are women !

Men have a lot of flaws and admit that sometimes I lie out of their behavior . But there is one thing that I appreciate them and that I am not able . And as I know there are many other women. You insult me ​​and do not agree with me , but I think men are more rational than us. We think often the soul and make decisions wrong.

We are far too emotional . When we panic , or are in a stressful situation we are not able to focus and do things right . We block . Then it's good to have around you a real man to put their brains together and help you make the best decision and do the wisest thing . It's good to have a man with his head on his shoulders.

Why we love men ? Because it was given to be ! It's good to have you with a complete soul , that'll be with you when it's good, and when you're wrong. I asked my friends what they appreciate most about men and why they could not live without . They gave me some very personal answers . Some I could say that I was and a little excited

It's good to love and be loved KARLA , 34 years I like to spend time with him , I would not ever get bored of his presence. He's gentle , kind, knows how to behave like a gentleman . I never thought it's good to stay with someone until 6 months ago when I moved in with him . And then ... I realized that to stay with him until we lived in vain .

What could be better than waking up every morning with the one you love ? I bring flowers boss swearing along the river , we sipping coffee together, argue , walk , eat one makes other clean up , go shopping together , I do surprises even very pleasant every day.                                                                         

What could be better to tell and show your loved one that you love ? LARA , 25 years : We love because they care for us when we head in the clouds are more realistic and keep things simple . We love that the men turns deadly in lambs , that allows us to childhood and , why not , they have higher wages than us ) Susan , 22 years old

What can I say .......... Keep your habit !




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MAGIC DREAM OF A WOMEN

It's quiet ...

And hear is my heartbeat shouting in a voice of longing crazy ... I keep a minute of silence to tell me actually what is happening inside her ... 57,58,59 sec .... One !

A mysterious wave covers my thinking with those fuzzy feelings of love .. and finally penetrate me with their youthful splendor .

Amnesic felt like dripping over my bodily heat , which I investigate every inch , until the moment when he rolled over my lips a kiss so sweet , smooth , and so romantic .. actually dreaming .. and my heart was in the delirium illusions of the past ? Or what was it ?

I was far from the world of reality , I was much too far to longer possess the time, which flowed like a little spring ...

With eyes closed and nailed to the infinite void of love, I was so happy my heart so many precious memories and enjoy the glow of their golden ..

Flying range of smoothness of gentle caresses and irreversible .. imagine you ... And it was you .. a hopeless romantic ... you're all mine ...!

My eyes slowly touching your imaginary little nose , cheeks , lips small - sweet as grams mints ... and ... kiss .. kiss between our eyes as empty love, and miss ..

And as I taste your eyes inside a burning lust for love, and biting my ruthlessly kept feeling special just for you ..

I did not want to stop the ticking of those moments ... the dust covered TODAY !

And sometimes I try to delete that gray layer over our story , and once you gather so hard that I'll keep my soul hungry mark on you ..                                                    

Some minute flight to nowhere I woke up with a heavy lazy everyday life .. sat lifeless in the window ... watching the snowflakes falling masked and white as beautiful on that cold earth ... who 's the heat you lose you ... that you did not step on here today .. 57,58,59 sec ....... 3 !

Breath that missing , broke into a mad run .. and then I knew for sure I was alone , in a quiet and steady abysmal .. Cam disoriented in a good end , I smiled bitterly .. you know why ? Because I was pleasantly moved by memories ... unrepeatable ... 

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DO YOU KNOW WHAT WOMEN WANT ?

A young emperor caught a  young man hunt his field . Put him in prison and told that it will release if answer the question :

- What does, in fact, a woman ?

The young man called and asked my mother, sister , cousin , neighbor , but none have been able to give a correct answer . Finally called a witch old and ugly . It promised to tell the correct answer provided by he will be released and will marry her .

With no other choice young man agreed . The answer was revealed witch :

- She actually wants to be mistress of his own life !

Emperor issued followed immediately. A wedding and the wedding night . But there was little surprise when in bed he found a very beautiful young girl who said :

- Because you kept the promise, half a day I'm old and ugly and the other half will be like now. Follow you to choose the half day to be young and to be old. Thoughtful young fell: laugh all he saw him with an old and ugly and night to spend the most pleasant moments with a young charming , or to walk on the most beautiful girl among men at night .... Finally the young man told her to choose how she thinks she's better. Immediately came the answer:

- I will always be young and beautiful because I found the man who gave me the freedom to be masters of my own life .

MORAL:

Does not matter ... if a woman is beautiful or ugly.

Eventually, everyone is a witch.


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HOW TO BE A MODERN WOMEN ?

A basic rule of post-modern society requires that for any representative of the fair sex is respected , a " best friend " is a must. Usually, the bearer of this honorable title changes over time and can not speak the same eternal friend . In general, a relationship of this type arise quiet punctuated the many rumors and wild escapades shopping. But no matter how mature it is, women have a little problem : not necessarily have to feel a little superior to her best friend . Not entirely, of course , not the front, but deaf spirit of competition is always felt in various forms. Usually a lasting friendship is to reach a balance of forces. For example, you are weaker - it's true, but she has a job more interesting and better paid . But when Mr. Perfect comes into play , balance breaks - one of you managed to win the " accessory " supreme value than any bag firm which automatically becomes the reason of more or less natural jealousies female. Of course, there are friends who will have absolutely no problem with your new love, but do not forget those for whom your boyfriend is either a goal to conquer or hateful enemy .

At first , he says that there is nothing unique about the man that you are in love. " I do not understand what he's special, but if you like ... " she remarks condescending and you sigh with relief - " well that does not seem attractive, because who knows what would go through your head ." Well, it is highly plausible that exactly what to think . After all , you shared tastes just are friends , right? Be very careful , her aura upper single girl can undergo a substantial modification before smallest sign that your new boyfriend and it seems interesting . How can you recognize a potential threat ? The kind who flaunt her feelings towards you and how important your friendship , but is tormented by personal frustrations and insecurities . Naturally, the sixth sense would be to do your figures right now , and if an invitation to coffee over the weekend ( three ... ) leave with smiles overly honey and a parade of deep cleavages by confused face your lover , take appropriate measures. Talk to him ( with her would be pointless , would irreparably injure and would deny to the hilt ) and suggest them to show an intransigent attitude , ironic . However , this kind of best- friend does not even have a place in your life , and if they persist in the attitude of the eternal " temptation" , give to friends until you wake up one story with an unexpected ending .

"It's a mystery how did you feel drawn to him precisely ," says your friend about that which he sees as the embodiment of absolute evil for you. Whatever he does , he dissects every gesture and every word to convince you of his evil intentions. The reasons ? It may be a genuine dislike , but most times it's pure envy or ... stupid. Privately , I want the good and even he thinks you do not fit . Of course your boyfriend is not interested in your drama if at all - even if you do not tell them it's ridiculous . If you wanna keep both relationships and hope for better times , the only possibility is to make peace with the idea that they should be seen more often than once per year on your birthday. And do not talk to him about it or vice versa. The bad news is that this type of friend you can not under any circumstances support if you have problems of torque. The " I told you ... " I will always follow .

Cruel , but true. Life can get you where you see how your boyfriend is " blown " very best friend ! You have neither the first nor the last to experience the bitter taste of betrayal , but watch for signs and act with caution. Can confirm your suspicions or speculations can be born from the love you carry for that " special someone " .

Typically, attitudes , gestures and hidden messages that you send us blow our true thoughts or intentions . Be sure that this principle applies to your best friend ! Intuition tells you that try to steal your boyfriend ? Carefully consider the typical signs and find her true face , before he invest time and energy in a toxic friendship .

1 . You around in front of

The first obvious trend your friend in an attempt to conquer your lover is you do in the face of negative publicity . We do our best to highlight your flaws , always relative to its quality . I will put you in a bad light telling intimate and embarrassing things about you , especially when you're not present .

Ask your partner about the things your girlfriend says them about you , and if they are mostly unkind (even in the form of jokes ) , put a big question mark on her plans !

2. Try to approach him at any cost

When you like a guy, you want to always be around him , is not it ? Notice the extent that try to sit as close to him to capture his attention and make him laugh. Also, see if you often touch palm on the shoulder or back , as gesture betrays the body language , physical attraction for the " comforted " by accident.

He offers to accompany him somewhere , just when you can not come? Here's a typical behavior of a woman who wants to conquer your lover !

3. I often suggest that you do not fit

Initially , it may seem that you are concerned for your fulfillment in love, but when they insist negative descriptions against him (although you does not it seem justified ) clearly sabotaging your relationship . As much as you would want good, can not you ever require someone to love !

4. Try to draw all the attention on her

When you are all three strikes you her provocative attire and how strongly the concerns you lover ? Speak up or " cat " , as if he really want to be in the spotlight ? It 's her way of proving that a game is better than you!

5 . Become competitive in the face of

Whether you play bowling , billiards, Monopoly , either discuss a topic of general culture , it becomes very competitive with you and it seems that it takes very seriously the competition ? Guess who " showing off " in front of your boyfriend to steal your place of his arms !

6. Contact him absurd reasons

Always finds excuses to contact the internet or on the phone, under various pretexts absurd to ask information ( you can find it and net) or borrow something from him . Undoubtedly , it sees it as just a friend !

7. He befriends his close

If ingratiate family , colleagues, and his cronies , gaining more ground in the fight for the win , so do not look relaxed habit of your friend . Even if you have mutual friends does not mean that it is normal to " suffocate " the mother , sister or brother, your lover .

When we love , we all enjoy a dose of possessiveness , lower or higher , depending on personality. As you less possessive But you can not remain impassive when one of your friends betray you and best signs that your boyfriend is interested , regularly flirting with him wherever he was , even when you are herein. Maybe they think that you do not see nothing of it. When you love instincts are strong and rightfully feel when your love is threatened and must stand up immediately .

Unfortunately, a lot of women find men more attractive to unavailable . Wearing a ring ? Comes with his girlfriend everywhere? Ah , I could be myself in her place ! Show all photos of her ? Oh you loved the job , I want him ! And I could go on forever giving all sorts of reasons. What we do but when the woman flirting with him and try and steal it 's really a good friend of yours ? You can rest easy thinking that if you go to the bathroom only to leave them alone five minutes ? Here are some tips to tackle .

1. Talk to her and explain what 's bothering you : If you see her flirting with him and trying to seduce him , the first thing you can do is to tell him directly that this bothers you . If you are in public , take her by the hand into a private place and try to talk to her as man to man . Explain ( if she knows ) that you need respect from them , since you're such a good friend . And respect is not a fad but a necessity in a normal friendly relationship .

2. Do not accept excuses like " it's just a flirt " I speak but she finds the kinds of excuses to try to appease you . Unless that friend that just flirts with everyone , including the elderly of 95 years at the bar , do not believe . Never flirting is not just a flirt and all that we know well .

3. And you flirting with the one you love her, make her realize this the way you feel and you : If nothing else, can he give such a life lesson . You see flirting with waiter in pizza ? And you flirting with him. Certainly will not mind. But while you understand and how it makes you feel when you are trying to seduce her boyfriend.

4 . Do not Let it around your lover : You already talked to her. He seemed to understand but no sign would have changed his attitude . What are you left to do ? Spend increasingly less time with her and when you do, you go alone, without boyfriend . Give them as less likely to see it and to test him power of seduction. At some point you will ask which is why its social exclusion and you have the opportunity to discuss the issue again. Who knows, maybe in the last moment she understands .

5. If all your attempts are without tracking, ending the friendship: If her behavior does not change and continues to ignore your feelings and end the friendship with her. Not a true friend and do not need such sneakiest people around you.

I hope these tips help you keep your beloved close, or who knows ........................... to stealing of others . CARPE DIEM !

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HOW TO BE A SMART GIRL

Every man wants a smart partner, no doubt . The intelligence of a woman is, unquestionably, sexy : men melt after women have opinions that can participate in conversations more complicated than " Have you seen that new clothes from …. ? "                                                                                                             

A hot mind and a strong personality who fail are aphrodisiacs . A woman who exudes confidence word is a treasure for those who reach it. However , because there is always a but ... no man can stay a long time with a woman always ready to argue , no matter how good they are opinions .

All run by a woman who tells you , the tone bluntly , that 's the truth or is the claim that all around her are far inferior.

It's interesting and not reprehensible to have demands on those around you , and men crave women who do not settle for less . From here to the woman who They work all energies for financial benefits is a long ...

And men are wary of this type of woman is not necessarily because they are afraid of failure , but because they want to be loved above all for what they are and then they will hold . It's understandable - we all want it.

Every man dreams of a woman powerful influencers who are not lost between being or not being , but little imagining that sometimes these women are dangerous . More specifically , only after I meet a lady / lady ' I'm always right ! " Gentlemen realize what they really want .

In any capacity , as beautiful as a woman who thinks he is always in possession of the truth or correctness of the man next scare . Stubbornness is basically an emanation of limited mentality !

Something is wrong with a woman who has the time and energy to do this - what would help her to know every move , you know all the details there partner blow his neck again. Beyond that is a sign of unhealthy possessiveness or absence of their lives sufficiently charged , a woman scares men because it gives the impression that it could ever hurt them, even physically .

Then went to the extreme passions , irrational extremes have a mental deviations in their structure.

This type of woman is something more than a woman who constantly pretends or wants to appear that it's not running woman men most is the one who is extremely interested only in their nets to catch them order to heal hidden wounds that left others.

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HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIVE

A new study finds that for older adults, the more content the wife is with her marriage, the happier the husband is with his life — no matter how he feels about their relationship.

“I think it comes down to the fact that when a wife is satisfied with the marriage, she tends to do a lot more for her husband, which has a positive effect on his life,” said Dr. Deborah Carr, a professor in the Department of Sociology, School of Arts and Science at Rutgers University in New Jersey.

“Men tend to be less vocal about their relationships and their level of marital unhappiness might not be translated to their wives.”

Carr partnered with Dr. Vicki Freedman, a research professor at the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, on the study, which was published in the Journal of Marriage and Family.

According to Carr, the new study differs from previous research because it takes into account the feelings of both spouses to determine how these marital appraisals influence the psychological well-being of older adults.

The researchers analyzed data from 394 couples who were part of a national study of income, health, and disability in 2009. At least one of the spouses was 60 or older. On average, couples were married for 39 years.

To assess marital quality, the couples were asked several questions, such as whether their spouse appreciates them, argues with them, understands their feelings, or gets on their nerves. They were also asked to keep detailed diaries about how happy they were in the previous 24 hours doing selected activities like shopping, doing household chores, and watching television.

The couples rated their general life satisfaction high, typically five out of six points — with husbands rating their marriage slightly more positive than their wives, according to the study’s findings.

“For both spouses, being in a better-rated marriage was linked to greater life satisfaction and happiness,” Carr said.

The study also found that while wives became less happy if their spouses became ill, the husbands’ happiness didn’t change if their wives got sick.

“We know that when a partner is sick, it is the wife that often does the caregiving, which can be a stressful experience,” said Carr. “But often when a women gets sick it is not her husband she relies on, but her daughter.”

According to researchers, the findings are important because the quality of a marriage can affect the health and well-being of older individuals as they continue to age.

“The quality of a marriage is important because it provides a buffer against the health-depleting effects of later life stressors and helps couples manage difficult decisions regarding health and medical decision making,” Carr said.

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