WHAT IS TRUE LOVE?

No wonder you're thinking about love since we live in a world obsessed with love. Love is the predominant theme in most of the songs, movies, novels or TV programs. Everywhere in the world of entertainment, it is someone who falls in love, break a relationship, have sex with someone pretending to love, give love, needs love, love lives or dies for love. In everyday life, lack of love is regarded as hell. The desire to love and be loved is as normal as breathing. Everyone wants true love, a love strong and deep, a love that will last forever. Yet, the pursuit of love has brought more pain, destruction and bitterness than all diseases and wars in the world.

What is love and how do you know if you found it? We say that love makes the earth spin. However, many students looking for love, have some heartbreaks and disappointments just because they do not know they're looking for. True love confused with other experiences and emotions and, therefore, fail to experience true love because I do not know what it is and what is not.

 Are you in a relationship with a very special person and love is at least in your mind, if not your lips. Do you love? You know how to make the difference whether you or not? Or maybe you have not found that special person, but want to be prepared for when you find it. Want to know what is true love so that you may recognize when you meet.

The first step in finding real love to know what it is not.

True love is not the same with sexual desire. Love and desire are often confused today. In fact, many

contemporary films, songs and romance novels, refers to sexual desire. How can you tell the difference? Love gives; It takes desire. Love appreciate; willingness uses. Love endures; desire decreases.

Yes, physical attraction is often the spark that ignites true love. God created us with the capacity and willingness of sexual intimacy, but if your relationship with a person of the opposite sex is based on a strong sexual attraction and physical satisfaction, might be confused as sexual desire with love.

True love is not the same with romance. Romantic feelings are wonderful in a relationship male / female. God created us so that we can have such special feelings for the opposite sex.

Perhaps you have experienced the inner warmth and romance in a relationship. But the emotion and warmth romance Love can not be matched. Romance is an emotion, true love is much more.

True love is not the same passion. Passion is fascination and a strong interest in the opposite sex. You think about it all day and all night dreaming. You do your program as you can to meet her or talk to her. It can fill the mind so much that you can not concentrate on anything else.

Passion is also called puppy love. It may be good for a dog, but if you just stay at it, you'll end up with a dog's life!

When people say that they "love" or talk about "love at first sight" usually talk about passion. Passion is usually our self-centered, whereas love is centered on others.

True love is not the same with sex. Many of us confuse sexual desire with love. Maybe you thought you sexual desire towards someone with true love. Sex as God conceived it, it is not bad. It was designed by

God for procreation within marriage. But sex is different from love. Can you have sex without love and love without sex? Love is a process; sex is an act. Love can be learned; sex is instinctive. Love requires constant attention; sex does not require any effort. Love needs time to grow and mature; sex does not need to develop. Love requires moral and spiritual interaction; sex only requires physical interaction. Love deepens a relationship; sex without love makes the relationship boring, banal.

Maybe you're thinking: "If love is more than sexual desire, romance, passion, sex or how I know if I'm in love"? That is the big question, especially if you are attracted to a person of the opposite sex and meet more often. To answer this question, you need to know more than that is not love. You have to understand what true love.



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