THE HUNTER

Years of marriage are leaking so light, you end up imperceptibly spring 38, a wife and two children. And at some point you notice that you are seen increasingly less and most of them do only outputs or only with children. And sleeping alone and if holiday is the sea, where they do not like, you get to go alone with the children.

And the sea is beautiful and romantic and two women appear and tell themselves, walk and at some point you realize: one of them even attracts you and you want to kiss her, and she refuses. But the next day she no longer forbid. And then, you ask her more and she refuses and ... and vacation ends. And I cried, yes, I even cried after her.

She is the youngest (31 years), most beautiful and smart, divorced, no children. Do you want, but how not to do comparison.

But the tale does not want it to end and there is still a meeting. Merely to show that it is not just a holiday story. But meanwhile achieved wife suffers and requires a decision. And with children between us is easy to take a decision. Public repudiation on Facebook, all of your problems and acquaintances are not you only have to feed yourself with the thought that you are neither the first nor the last in this world with such problems. And the tale goes undecided, a truce for a limited period at the end of 2013.

With new forces begin rebuilding marriage trying to give as much. But forget about the issue during his wife had probably never know the real strength and decades in the same boredom and routine. Interestingly bed are ok; tell friends and realize that, in fact, what we boast in this chapter.

But months pass and loneliness overwhelms me again. And coming mid-summer 2014 and send a message. And she responds naughty. I did not forget. And we meet and tell, I invite her warm smile, her eyes aimed throws sparks to ignite a fire that's actually a real blaze and finally she invited me to her. And I feared rejection, because the spirit protector of me tells me I would not want to suffer again for me. On the road the 200 kms to the house (which painfully separate us every time) I realize that they are among the few losers in the world who would refuse the opportunity to fully enjoy the moments spent with someone who yearned after that.

Messages continue obscene become dirty and exciting at the same time and she asks me directly. I'm reluctant to give an answer, but can not refuse to infinity, no train waiting so many times and would even offensive to her. Accept and meet. Yes, it is incredible, unreal, unimaginable for both. I am the god tan, she is the princess white, white, corporate workaholic untouched in mid-summer sun. The passion with which it gives me to compare it with an explosion that engulfs all the air around her.

Already after the third meeting feel that there need to provide a ring ... hhmm so fast, ring? about burn stages. Pass the test and buy the ring and realize that though she only wants an affair with me. The character somewhat constant, but still only an adventure.

After several meetings and wife realize that there was a problem. It was easy and as long as I did before love for hours, half the night, and was now half an hour waiting to be over before they even begin. Strangely, after a while found that she accept this infidelity. Why? Perhaps I was throwing a husband. I promise it's just a summer rain and I will pass.

And I sleep with his wife and once even the same day. In love? Out of fear she did not find someone? From compassion? Do not know, do not know. I feel like a bull but as a monster, a husband failed.

But incendiary nights that bring weight loss, physical harm me and her, break me any and I want to do anything just to be with her. Did loves me, is obsessed with sex or just never had someone recently? I'm not experienced enough to answer. I came along we thought long lost. And go on weekends together. And children ask me (worship me) why I leave one at the weekend; even without them? Become stressed wife bombards me with sms that I realize that much to me, and probably you as I care about her and the family. And she read me, is smart and intuits.

And after our weekend movies that tells me citybreak site that was between us over and get back to my house. Refusal vigorously and meet again. Sexual attraction is instant, but we stop ... just tell. I asked to make a decision. Then tells me she wants a family, not just to live the moment.

Wife asks me to resume our marriage a second chance. Not saying before, but the second chance was in the fall of 2013 when I quit once to it.

I propose that for two or three months to try to forget it and to devote myself to family and if you do not resist, that is, to take the most difficult decision of my life after 18 years of relationship.

Tell a friend passing and he admits that has never known such nights. Sorry, can I destroy and silence his marriage.

I can not sleep and can not live without it and not restrain myself to write. After two weeks I say that is happy. And it breaks me heart pain. Then write that I started a new relationship. Tremor at work, home and me quieter night run many, many miles from 10 to 11 constantly. I wanted to cry, that's why I chose the night, I do not see anyone. But I gave a tear. And neither was I tired, although I think a tear to my muscles. At least if it was a race track, I get something out of it.

Analysis and thinking that she did not mind, so probably trying to make family dreams on "fast forward". Or trying to hurt me to hasten my decision. But both solutions are to the detriment of her times is too libertine times is too selfish and dangerous blackmailer. Making it makes me start to sleep more than 4 hours a night, is a breakthrough.

They are often a delayed. And I'm glad I did not rush. How the hell did divorce after 2-3 months with her? I wanted to make sure I did not agitate for a fire of straw. However, it was normal to divorce before having a new relationship, do not forget that. I think I would have expected it a year. There are an adventurer, are just a 38-year romantic.

Wife is close to me still; and she is smart. If I would be asked to break up, I would have flown out the door, before at least to finish her ​​sentence. I always liked smart women.

She did not reply to my messages. But are becoming quieter. Now I'm sure he loves me not, or do not make me suffer. And I made ​​her suffer, but I was married, I could not escape so easily. Anyway not step on it, the attraction between us is too strong to still remain rational. You must think only head up. And I thought I would have to buy cot, pram, bottle, car seat, etc. and she me "forget" after 2-3 weeks?

I will not retaliate but never. I live with feeling slightly evil, that life will avenge her, when you meet another / others who will not pass all the tests that I've passed: romance, gifts and fools in two.

I feel free now. I know that my marriage can end anytime now; I know that his wife will be able to avenge me, but I am not afraid of anything, I just want to take care of children and try to love as much as life, without anyone around me to suffer because of me.

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HAPPY WIFE HAPPY LIVE

A new study finds that for older adults, the more content the wife is with her marriage, the happier the husband is with his life — no matter how he feels about their relationship.

“I think it comes down to the fact that when a wife is satisfied with the marriage, she tends to do a lot more for her husband, which has a positive effect on his life,” said Dr. Deborah Carr, a professor in the Department of Sociology, School of Arts and Science at Rutgers University in New Jersey.

“Men tend to be less vocal about their relationships and their level of marital unhappiness might not be translated to their wives.”

Carr partnered with Dr. Vicki Freedman, a research professor at the University of Michigan Institute for Social Research, on the study, which was published in the Journal of Marriage and Family.

According to Carr, the new study differs from previous research because it takes into account the feelings of both spouses to determine how these marital appraisals influence the psychological well-being of older adults.

The researchers analyzed data from 394 couples who were part of a national study of income, health, and disability in 2009. At least one of the spouses was 60 or older. On average, couples were married for 39 years.

To assess marital quality, the couples were asked several questions, such as whether their spouse appreciates them, argues with them, understands their feelings, or gets on their nerves. They were also asked to keep detailed diaries about how happy they were in the previous 24 hours doing selected activities like shopping, doing household chores, and watching television.

The couples rated their general life satisfaction high, typically five out of six points — with husbands rating their marriage slightly more positive than their wives, according to the study’s findings.

“For both spouses, being in a better-rated marriage was linked to greater life satisfaction and happiness,” Carr said.

The study also found that while wives became less happy if their spouses became ill, the husbands’ happiness didn’t change if their wives got sick.

“We know that when a partner is sick, it is the wife that often does the caregiving, which can be a stressful experience,” said Carr. “But often when a women gets sick it is not her husband she relies on, but her daughter.”

According to researchers, the findings are important because the quality of a marriage can affect the health and well-being of older individuals as they continue to age.

“The quality of a marriage is important because it provides a buffer against the health-depleting effects of later life stressors and helps couples manage difficult decisions regarding health and medical decision making,” Carr said.

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DADDY AS A MAN

He came smiling and trying to keep up with his little girl aged five years, which run glad that go to the playground where a bouncy castle was sending the children to the world of stories more or less known. He walked quite clumsy, making a visible effort not to be discordant in relation to the child's progress in the context of the playground and, more than that, it does not spoil the joy princess in pink.

It looked like nothing that would require it, he would have refused. It was a pleasure to see mature man and in many cases even imposing, now enjoying the happiness of the child, from the time of breaking his man, aside contracts, suppliers and customers, dedicating himself totally a baby man. Descending, in other words in her world he was the king.

More valuable than huge amounts of money they made in business and they make many other entrepreneurs like him, was that smile that he could not only bring him his daughter, and she was asking only for a little time and a little sincerity, and a little of what it was thirty years ago, few would have liked to have and he then, little of what has and can give without the risk of losing something.

He looked lost and instantly crossed my mind thousands of men faces serious and determined, mature and serious, winners and fulfilled, plictistiti become routine. Of all these, I prefer it, that he had time to show their feelings, to externalize the child from him for his child, to give him what heaven all we love: time and attention. He was a man who knew how to win and even impose respect for others, but was able to lie on the ground at the feet of his daughter without the slightest hesitation.

 And I felt that if he could give her time and love can give anyone, love does not end, love can divide indefinitely and thus multiplies. And so on all have failed in my hierarchy, and Metrosexual of expensive perfume commercials and charming leader, feared by all and charming with Maybach and genius billionaire who has science sexy little finger and all the footballers and all the famous actors and gorgeous eyes all aesthetic parts more or less artificial modern society never ceases to flood every day.

It remained only for him. He seemed to be that if all these extra man. Plus child. Plus father. And if you could do that, could make me happy and me, as does the princess, as it does on her, she was now at home waiting for him. What else would be like a woman and a mother.

The last time I thought about it, how it seemed natural and charming, filled with an aura that exudes innocence in his juru. Our lives took different paths from one point, but he has not missed any important moment in the life of his daughter. He was there every time and it filled her with a joy that see her every gesture.

Coincidentally I saw him one day, he was in a jeep and try to persuade a young woman on the street, go out for coffee. I saw: a man sure of himself, and he knew he wanted something sure to get. Try to sell well: expensive car, expensive clothes, well-chosen words, money. Who refuse it? The young girl on the street refused. I met again after a while. Do the same. First I refused to believe it. The second time I was despised him. Again a refusal. Why? I could not run to her and tell her: you know what can be wonderful? You know that warm and soothing? You know how to read you can give love to his daughter, just simple gestures? You know what is gentle and human, as few men know to be today? Why does it want?

And I realized that they have no guilt, they are what he wants, but they sell "product" in the wrong way. As they do not need a man with jeep and money, they they will noticeably, a man who has for princesses who leave carried away, innocence and candor, but him to conquer them becomes another, that another that he believes that women fall in love. And it is still a wonderful man!


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THE SEDUCTION LAWS

Looking through my bedroom window and see sedentary people , houses, flowers, cars, trees blooming , birds singing , I hear , I feel humbled and happy, do not know where he got to me as miraculous wealth . Who loves me so much as to give me , without me asking for anything , a perfect world, more perfect than they would have dared to ask my imagination ? What mystery hiding this world ? Hurriedly get a message confirming that my first step towards knowledge is the question ; arrives quick response to my thought : remember the wisdom of the biblical word " Without love nothing is ! Everything you see , everything that exists is love. " Here I am cleared by a new miracle divine revelation .

Life and that all life is related to the miracles of love , colorful and fragrant flowers attract bees which carry on the love and mystery of procreation , the fruit fell from the tree after maturely seeds is sweet to draw animals , seeds resist digestion process and spread throughout the earth aided by wind and water , their unborn factory cord that connects the mother's body from receiving food , oxygen and love , males are endowed with an organ that females seeded in turn bestowed with all the necessary receipt and increasing the fruit . List of miracles is long, leaving the reader to add and marvel . The question we ask is trivial : Why were designed and figment these miracles ? What mystery lies behind these proofs of universal love ? What is love ?

I searched in response to philosophers , I went slightly over the bleak cynicism of Schopenhauer , then love would be a large bait to perpetuate the species , a partial truth because it would be a shame to be just that . Comte- Sponville , contemporary French philosopher , believed that love is less a feeling and more a state of mind , an idea similar to that of Spinoza who said that love is the pleasure that accompanies an external cause . It is said that love is pleasure to love another and that love is first directed to the lover , a need to respond to the fear of not being loved , loved being the person who fills the spiritual needs that we can not grateful for by other means. It cites the procreation instinct that can be done with a person who meets the requirement to have the same desire . Biological need to have offspring makes us seek a partner or a partner to fulfill it . Especially the transfer of all our construction imaginative and desired qualities we ascribe to justify the power of seduction and our choice. Physical affair between people is the expression in a specific manner , the universal principle of continuity through reproduction , which justifies a some as the possibility of repetition with another partner , but carefully , multiplication and partners drives the gate of the who writes : " I che'ntrate Lasciate ogni speranza " . Playful, like all poets, Baudelaire said that love is a "crime " that you can not do without an accomplice. It probably refers to stolen love .

Love is based on a waiver. Descartes warned that love is a passion without appearing to realize if your loved one deserve our love . Love has no boundaries or rules. St. Augustine said that the measure of love is to love without measure , and Maupassant you confirm adding: " love , nothing more , nothing less ." Love is a mysterious fire which burned partners happy together, aware of the transience and that the resulting fruit is their downfall .

Researchers have sought locations and explanations of love and the accompanying phenomena . It is assumed that love is a chemical response to chemical receptors . Place and brain structures involved in the actual love match those of " reward " . Love is based on the expectation of a reward : love and expect to be loved. In societies where sexuality is not considered commonplace passions may appear devastating. Psychologists have noticed the special aspects of manifestation of love : excitement , decreased power of judgment, lack of judgment , a tendency to exaggerate and bipolar patients , manic- depressive bouts of obsessive -compulsive disorder. Experts have noticed a connection between love and dependence, both coordinated by the reward . Distress to a some drug addicts is very high when their love is shared .

Develop specific activities of the human psyche has generated some particular events passion , jealousy , present in animals, monogamy , suffering lovers, expressing love pain artistic ways , and others.

These few thoughts enriched with readings make me disagree , completely , with Albert Einstein who said: " Not because terrestrial attraction people fall in love ." My book is the fact that as long as we do not know because we can not separate the terrestrial attraction to another universal law : the law of love .


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WHY WOMEN LOVE MEN ?

Why we love men ! Because they have large hands with short fingernails , the matte color . We love men because they give you that feeling when you grab the hand - you're safe. Nobody will steal you a man , because he is the temple of your desires and sufferings . We love men because their guise iron alloy often hides a soul abandoned cat . Because they smell your skin and say that you scrub cinnamon again . For they trembled beside you , dressed in their coat . To smell their face after shaving . For how delicate is their face after shaving . For baritone voices and their voices when they wake up from sleep. For full minute comparison between the BMW and the new Mercedes . For how to wake up early in the morning and I make coffee . For as always control their powers when you fight with pillows , and how you control them and not let yours. For their meal portions gigantic smile on their face when you eat something cooked . For as I found at midnight , winter, fresh strawberries , tomatoes and tasteless . For how you feel when you include , as if the world ended and you are locked in a small room with walls the color of the sunset and the smell of jasmine . For times when I grabbed his head with both hands and kissed your forehead.

We love men because we are part of them , that if we believe in history we pressed on his shoulders .

We love men because it helps us to know somehow through them , beyond what we find in the privacy of their own soul .

We love men because they know how important we are and feel that without us , the beauty and affection would not find place in this universe.

We love men because they have strong hands that we love when we get in free fall .

We love men because that make us more secure us and tell us that our pragmatism used in extreme cases.

We love men because they are still asking, "What do women want ? " .

We love men because we hug in the morning before we get out of bed in the evening before bedtime.

We love men because as we learned from our mothers .

We love men because they touch the soul with just a few words so simple and yet loaded.

We love men because they wear their rigorous and a simple shirt makes them look so important .

We love men because , although sometimes harsh expressions and looks twisted , obscure the immeasurable love .

We love men because their hardness and cigarette between his fingers .

We love men because somehow they remain some children who daydream .

We love men because always drink coffee without milk.

We love men because most of them know to cook.

We love men that appreciate a beautiful woman .

We love men because , beyond the assumed seriousness, poked its nose into our hair and sleep there, as if there is "home" .

We love men that are attentive to detail and I know almost all the time, it was when you were the most beautiful .

We love men because men love their fragrance stay all day we just bought blouse .

We love men because our genes as some butterfly kisses brainless night.

We love men because they have no idea how to handle a rifle and still hunt all the time.

We love men because they understand what it means to drive a real car .

We love men because , although long gone adolescence are still the best games on the computer.

We love men because they are cowards, but do not admit it to themselves and enjoy the hardest decisions women in their place.

We love men because they are afraid of the dentist even though they are able to fight with the toughest guy if I offend girlfriend or mother.

We love men because they do not allow women to be better in the eyes of other women. They think it's their merit .

We love men because I do not know to distinguish colors when you say that wearing pink clover is like you speak of a conspiracy theory .

We love men that do not distinguish between the skirt and dress.

We love men because they make important promises immediately after sex.

In a word because they are men.

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WHO STOLE YOUR BOYFRIEND?

Cruel , but true. Life can get you where you see how your boyfriend is " blown " very best friend ! You have neither the first nor the last to experience the bitter taste of betrayal , but watch for signs and act with caution. Can confirm your suspicions or speculations can be born from the love you carry for that " special someone " .

Typically, attitudes , gestures and hidden messages that you send us blow our true thoughts or intentions . Be sure that this principle applies to your best friend ! Intuition tells you that try to steal your boyfriend ? Carefully consider the typical signs and find her true face , before he invest time and energy in a toxic friendship .

1. You around in front of

The first obvious trend your friend in an attempt to conquer your lover is you do in the face of negative publicity . We do our best to highlight your flaws , always relative to its quality . I will put you in a bad light telling intimate and embarrassing things about you , especially when you're not present .

Ask your partner about the things your girlfriend says them about you , and if they are mostly unkind (even in the form of jokes ) , put a big question mark on her plans !

2. She tries to approach him at any cost

When you like a guy, you want to always be around him , is not it ? Notice the extent that try to sit as close to him to capture his attention and make him laugh. Also, see if you often touch palm on the shoulder or back , as gesture betrays the body language , physical attraction for the " comforted " by accident.

He offers to accompany him somewhere , just when you can not come? Here's a typical behavior of a woman who wants to conquer your lover !

3. Frequently suggest that you do not fit

Initially , it may seem that you are concerned for your fulfillment in love, but when they insist negative descriptions against him (although you does not it seem justified ) clearly sabotaging your relationship . As much as you would want good, can not you ever require someone to love !

4. Trying to draw all the attention on her

When you are all three strikes you her provocative attire and how strongly the concerns you lover ? Speak up or "cat" , as if he really want to be in the spotlight ? It 's her way of proving that a game is better than you!

5. Become competitive in the face of

Whether you play bowling , billiards, Monopoly , either discuss a topic of general culture , it becomes very competitive with you and it seems that it takes very seriously the competition ? Guess who " showing off " in front of your boyfriend to steal your place of his arms !

6 . Absurd reasons I contact

Always finds excuses to contact the internet or on the phone, under various pretexts absurd to ask information ( you can find it and net) or borrow something from him . Undoubtedly , it sees it as just a friend !

7. She's close his friends

If ingratiate family , colleagues, and his cronies , gaining more ground in the fight for the win , so do not look relaxed habit of your friend . Even if you have mutual friends does not mean that it is normal to " suffocate " the mother , sister or brother, your lover .

If you recognize one or more of these signs in the behavior of "friend" your time to act, otherwise ............... will demonstrate how to keep him.

Without hesitation,

Calm down the situation !


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FIRE OF LOVE

Bring them today, my most sincere thanks to former great love who have passed through my life and served each one a specific lesson; milder or harsher lessons, each one showed me what I want to do because it suits me and what is good for me.
Many people would ask "What do you mean was" great "love?" Who loves divided into small and large, and especially on what criteria? What you felt or what you think he felt the other. Or maybe how the relationship was perceived by others. Some might be tempted, can make a classification of all their loves and compare between them. There are also people who believe that every baby in her day is "great love". Remembering you seem unimportant at the present time, but when you've lived, you lived each one as great love, huh?
At one point in my life I thought that love lasts three years not because as a rule after many opinions known, but for me it has happened. All relationships have succumbed sooner or later near term 3 year old beautiful enough. I regretted and I've never wanted to go back, although in some cases it was extremely difficult. We all know what it means deception and how hard you get back to open your heart to a new love.
Who does not love beginnings, those true and warm your life unexpected lights and make you float so many butterflies in my stomach!
Thus arrived the other ...... the sunshine smiling with sincere eyes and a killer smile ...
When we met, the physical attraction between us was electrified, instantly I knew that we want, and the approach, although very much delayed because initially did not seem possible a relationship has far exceeded expectations. I continued in a symbiosis of natural devouring to exhaustion. We do not bore your friends this restless and exciting, because I could not sit "quietly" on the couch in one visit, for example.
We fail to see a movie together ... than with interruptions, because obviously see a movie that you keep your arms nice and if you hold in your arms ... you can not just so that the body gets it right. The nights were half white passion and mornings when I got to the office with indelible smile on his lips begin to remember moments and made me miss you until we meet again sitting on thorns. I could say I had serious problems with concentration and current issues that came into my service tasks, solving them with great effort. I was not thinking than when we would meet again, which is why my blood was "in nearly perpetual commotion."
The car became my closet with clothes, shoes and perfumes, because I had to have clothes ready every situation, and we were already one body made up of two separate pieces that could not even stay one night.
It was so until the day we moved in together when disaster began. Slowly we've seen with the same eyes, I began to see flaws and moody, there were unpleasant responsibilities shared a house sustained tension increased desire went and got the separation threshold than once ... many times I was about to give up and then I did. But we could stay away from each other? No.
After every break up the luggage and take my leave, after sweet honeymoon (or week, as applicable) reconciliation. We blamed everything was fine, we bicker all the crap, I played the thorniest aspects of a relationship, we worked to fix and we faced where I did not agree, as appropriate.
We recovered the desire hidden in a secret corner in the same great distance from us that worked every time - then I read that successfully recommend torque therapies a world-renowned specialist in couple relationships. I experienced the most eccentric fantasies together - our luck - happened to be common.
We were also jealous and indifferent, we hurt and one and another, I cried and laughed together, we had ups and downs. What caused us to be so determined to stick together and every time we go again with the same passion but the lessons learned? I felt just like us, that we belong together and that wishing that we really can build a relationship by gorgeous.
Today, in the third year of dating, holding hands walking us through the park in the middle of the night without saying a word, just present warm in the cool air of the night ... when we sat on the bench and get our arms, feeling that there is little place where the happiest human being on this earth. Stirs my senses with a consolation, we can hardly limited to gestures decent, because we are in a public space ... avidly relished near bodies in harmony with our spirits without the need of a word.
Spring is the new love in my heart. Every day you wake up with the most wonderful being a big deal for a man's mental comfort that gives wings to feel capable of anything; to climb Everest and then flying it down if you want to.
We were not easy to overcome all the deadlocks, we accept as we are and we do not boast that it will be "peace" for all, just live a love story that we have embellished it as I could, but would have been long forgotten if I had the strength to fight for her, first with ourselves, with their own fears and misconceptions.
To fall in love not only have to meet the right person, but to keep the fire of love and passion is a delicate task since moving together, in my opinion and my experience.
Experience has taught us how to make him happy on the other, how to bring them comfort you need, how to show him patience, trust, altruism and importantly, how to give him complete freedom to be himself. I learned a lot from each other and learn together to accept the things that can not be changed in order to enjoy those that unite two people grateful that met to give life a love fire.
A great thinker once said:

"Love is like a fire which both partners have to lay the wood when one ceases to lay the wood the fire goes out." Was quite right!

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