DADDY AS A MAN

He came smiling and trying to keep up with his little girl aged five years, which run glad that go to the playground where a bouncy castle was sending the children to the world of stories more or less known. He walked quite clumsy, making a visible effort not to be discordant in relation to the child's progress in the context of the playground and, more than that, it does not spoil the joy princess in pink.

It looked like nothing that would require it, he would have refused. It was a pleasure to see mature man and in many cases even imposing, now enjoying the happiness of the child, from the time of breaking his man, aside contracts, suppliers and customers, dedicating himself totally a baby man. Descending, in other words in her world he was the king.

More valuable than huge amounts of money they made in business and they make many other entrepreneurs like him, was that smile that he could not only bring him his daughter, and she was asking only for a little time and a little sincerity, and a little of what it was thirty years ago, few would have liked to have and he then, little of what has and can give without the risk of losing something.

He looked lost and instantly crossed my mind thousands of men faces serious and determined, mature and serious, winners and fulfilled, plictistiti become routine. Of all these, I prefer it, that he had time to show their feelings, to externalize the child from him for his child, to give him what heaven all we love: time and attention. He was a man who knew how to win and even impose respect for others, but was able to lie on the ground at the feet of his daughter without the slightest hesitation.

 And I felt that if he could give her time and love can give anyone, love does not end, love can divide indefinitely and thus multiplies. And so on all have failed in my hierarchy, and Metrosexual of expensive perfume commercials and charming leader, feared by all and charming with Maybach and genius billionaire who has science sexy little finger and all the footballers and all the famous actors and gorgeous eyes all aesthetic parts more or less artificial modern society never ceases to flood every day.

It remained only for him. He seemed to be that if all these extra man. Plus child. Plus father. And if you could do that, could make me happy and me, as does the princess, as it does on her, she was now at home waiting for him. What else would be like a woman and a mother.

The last time I thought about it, how it seemed natural and charming, filled with an aura that exudes innocence in his juru. Our lives took different paths from one point, but he has not missed any important moment in the life of his daughter. He was there every time and it filled her with a joy that see her every gesture.

Coincidentally I saw him one day, he was in a jeep and try to persuade a young woman on the street, go out for coffee. I saw: a man sure of himself, and he knew he wanted something sure to get. Try to sell well: expensive car, expensive clothes, well-chosen words, money. Who refuse it? The young girl on the street refused. I met again after a while. Do the same. First I refused to believe it. The second time I was despised him. Again a refusal. Why? I could not run to her and tell her: you know what can be wonderful? You know that warm and soothing? You know how to read you can give love to his daughter, just simple gestures? You know what is gentle and human, as few men know to be today? Why does it want?

And I realized that they have no guilt, they are what he wants, but they sell "product" in the wrong way. As they do not need a man with jeep and money, they they will noticeably, a man who has for princesses who leave carried away, innocence and candor, but him to conquer them becomes another, that another that he believes that women fall in love. And it is still a wonderful man!


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THE SEDUCTION LAWS

Looking through my bedroom window and see sedentary people , houses, flowers, cars, trees blooming , birds singing , I hear , I feel humbled and happy, do not know where he got to me as miraculous wealth . Who loves me so much as to give me , without me asking for anything , a perfect world, more perfect than they would have dared to ask my imagination ? What mystery hiding this world ? Hurriedly get a message confirming that my first step towards knowledge is the question ; arrives quick response to my thought : remember the wisdom of the biblical word " Without love nothing is ! Everything you see , everything that exists is love. " Here I am cleared by a new miracle divine revelation .

Life and that all life is related to the miracles of love , colorful and fragrant flowers attract bees which carry on the love and mystery of procreation , the fruit fell from the tree after maturely seeds is sweet to draw animals , seeds resist digestion process and spread throughout the earth aided by wind and water , their unborn factory cord that connects the mother's body from receiving food , oxygen and love , males are endowed with an organ that females seeded in turn bestowed with all the necessary receipt and increasing the fruit . List of miracles is long, leaving the reader to add and marvel . The question we ask is trivial : Why were designed and figment these miracles ? What mystery lies behind these proofs of universal love ? What is love ?

I searched in response to philosophers , I went slightly over the bleak cynicism of Schopenhauer , then love would be a large bait to perpetuate the species , a partial truth because it would be a shame to be just that . Comte- Sponville , contemporary French philosopher , believed that love is less a feeling and more a state of mind , an idea similar to that of Spinoza who said that love is the pleasure that accompanies an external cause . It is said that love is pleasure to love another and that love is first directed to the lover , a need to respond to the fear of not being loved , loved being the person who fills the spiritual needs that we can not grateful for by other means. It cites the procreation instinct that can be done with a person who meets the requirement to have the same desire . Biological need to have offspring makes us seek a partner or a partner to fulfill it . Especially the transfer of all our construction imaginative and desired qualities we ascribe to justify the power of seduction and our choice. Physical affair between people is the expression in a specific manner , the universal principle of continuity through reproduction , which justifies a some as the possibility of repetition with another partner , but carefully , multiplication and partners drives the gate of the who writes : " I che'ntrate Lasciate ogni speranza " . Playful, like all poets, Baudelaire said that love is a "crime " that you can not do without an accomplice. It probably refers to stolen love .

Love is based on a waiver. Descartes warned that love is a passion without appearing to realize if your loved one deserve our love . Love has no boundaries or rules. St. Augustine said that the measure of love is to love without measure , and Maupassant you confirm adding: " love , nothing more , nothing less ." Love is a mysterious fire which burned partners happy together, aware of the transience and that the resulting fruit is their downfall .

Researchers have sought locations and explanations of love and the accompanying phenomena . It is assumed that love is a chemical response to chemical receptors . Place and brain structures involved in the actual love match those of " reward " . Love is based on the expectation of a reward : love and expect to be loved. In societies where sexuality is not considered commonplace passions may appear devastating. Psychologists have noticed the special aspects of manifestation of love : excitement , decreased power of judgment, lack of judgment , a tendency to exaggerate and bipolar patients , manic- depressive bouts of obsessive -compulsive disorder. Experts have noticed a connection between love and dependence, both coordinated by the reward . Distress to a some drug addicts is very high when their love is shared .

Develop specific activities of the human psyche has generated some particular events passion , jealousy , present in animals, monogamy , suffering lovers, expressing love pain artistic ways , and others.

These few thoughts enriched with readings make me disagree , completely , with Albert Einstein who said: " Not because terrestrial attraction people fall in love ." My book is the fact that as long as we do not know because we can not separate the terrestrial attraction to another universal law : the law of love .


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WHY WOMEN LOVE MEN ?

Why we love men ! Because they have large hands with short fingernails , the matte color . We love men because they give you that feeling when you grab the hand - you're safe. Nobody will steal you a man , because he is the temple of your desires and sufferings . We love men because their guise iron alloy often hides a soul abandoned cat . Because they smell your skin and say that you scrub cinnamon again . For they trembled beside you , dressed in their coat . To smell their face after shaving . For how delicate is their face after shaving . For baritone voices and their voices when they wake up from sleep. For full minute comparison between the BMW and the new Mercedes . For how to wake up early in the morning and I make coffee . For as always control their powers when you fight with pillows , and how you control them and not let yours. For their meal portions gigantic smile on their face when you eat something cooked . For as I found at midnight , winter, fresh strawberries , tomatoes and tasteless . For how you feel when you include , as if the world ended and you are locked in a small room with walls the color of the sunset and the smell of jasmine . For times when I grabbed his head with both hands and kissed your forehead.

We love men because we are part of them , that if we believe in history we pressed on his shoulders .

We love men because it helps us to know somehow through them , beyond what we find in the privacy of their own soul .

We love men because they know how important we are and feel that without us , the beauty and affection would not find place in this universe.

We love men because they have strong hands that we love when we get in free fall .

We love men because that make us more secure us and tell us that our pragmatism used in extreme cases.

We love men because they are still asking, "What do women want ? " .

We love men because we hug in the morning before we get out of bed in the evening before bedtime.

We love men because as we learned from our mothers .

We love men because they touch the soul with just a few words so simple and yet loaded.

We love men because they wear their rigorous and a simple shirt makes them look so important .

We love men because , although sometimes harsh expressions and looks twisted , obscure the immeasurable love .

We love men because their hardness and cigarette between his fingers .

We love men because somehow they remain some children who daydream .

We love men because always drink coffee without milk.

We love men because most of them know to cook.

We love men that appreciate a beautiful woman .

We love men because , beyond the assumed seriousness, poked its nose into our hair and sleep there, as if there is "home" .

We love men that are attentive to detail and I know almost all the time, it was when you were the most beautiful .

We love men because men love their fragrance stay all day we just bought blouse .

We love men because our genes as some butterfly kisses brainless night.

We love men because they have no idea how to handle a rifle and still hunt all the time.

We love men because they understand what it means to drive a real car .

We love men because , although long gone adolescence are still the best games on the computer.

We love men because they are cowards, but do not admit it to themselves and enjoy the hardest decisions women in their place.

We love men because they are afraid of the dentist even though they are able to fight with the toughest guy if I offend girlfriend or mother.

We love men because they do not allow women to be better in the eyes of other women. They think it's their merit .

We love men because I do not know to distinguish colors when you say that wearing pink clover is like you speak of a conspiracy theory .

We love men that do not distinguish between the skirt and dress.

We love men because they make important promises immediately after sex.

In a word because they are men.

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WHO STOLE YOUR BOYFRIEND?

Cruel , but true. Life can get you where you see how your boyfriend is " blown " very best friend ! You have neither the first nor the last to experience the bitter taste of betrayal , but watch for signs and act with caution. Can confirm your suspicions or speculations can be born from the love you carry for that " special someone " .

Typically, attitudes , gestures and hidden messages that you send us blow our true thoughts or intentions . Be sure that this principle applies to your best friend ! Intuition tells you that try to steal your boyfriend ? Carefully consider the typical signs and find her true face , before he invest time and energy in a toxic friendship .

1. You around in front of

The first obvious trend your friend in an attempt to conquer your lover is you do in the face of negative publicity . We do our best to highlight your flaws , always relative to its quality . I will put you in a bad light telling intimate and embarrassing things about you , especially when you're not present .

Ask your partner about the things your girlfriend says them about you , and if they are mostly unkind (even in the form of jokes ) , put a big question mark on her plans !

2. She tries to approach him at any cost

When you like a guy, you want to always be around him , is not it ? Notice the extent that try to sit as close to him to capture his attention and make him laugh. Also, see if you often touch palm on the shoulder or back , as gesture betrays the body language , physical attraction for the " comforted " by accident.

He offers to accompany him somewhere , just when you can not come? Here's a typical behavior of a woman who wants to conquer your lover !

3. Frequently suggest that you do not fit

Initially , it may seem that you are concerned for your fulfillment in love, but when they insist negative descriptions against him (although you does not it seem justified ) clearly sabotaging your relationship . As much as you would want good, can not you ever require someone to love !

4. Trying to draw all the attention on her

When you are all three strikes you her provocative attire and how strongly the concerns you lover ? Speak up or "cat" , as if he really want to be in the spotlight ? It 's her way of proving that a game is better than you!

5. Become competitive in the face of

Whether you play bowling , billiards, Monopoly , either discuss a topic of general culture , it becomes very competitive with you and it seems that it takes very seriously the competition ? Guess who " showing off " in front of your boyfriend to steal your place of his arms !

6 . Absurd reasons I contact

Always finds excuses to contact the internet or on the phone, under various pretexts absurd to ask information ( you can find it and net) or borrow something from him . Undoubtedly , it sees it as just a friend !

7. She's close his friends

If ingratiate family , colleagues, and his cronies , gaining more ground in the fight for the win , so do not look relaxed habit of your friend . Even if you have mutual friends does not mean that it is normal to " suffocate " the mother , sister or brother, your lover .

If you recognize one or more of these signs in the behavior of "friend" your time to act, otherwise ............... will demonstrate how to keep him.

Without hesitation,

Calm down the situation !


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FIRE OF LOVE

Bring them today, my most sincere thanks to former great love who have passed through my life and served each one a specific lesson; milder or harsher lessons, each one showed me what I want to do because it suits me and what is good for me.
Many people would ask "What do you mean was" great "love?" Who loves divided into small and large, and especially on what criteria? What you felt or what you think he felt the other. Or maybe how the relationship was perceived by others. Some might be tempted, can make a classification of all their loves and compare between them. There are also people who believe that every baby in her day is "great love". Remembering you seem unimportant at the present time, but when you've lived, you lived each one as great love, huh?
At one point in my life I thought that love lasts three years not because as a rule after many opinions known, but for me it has happened. All relationships have succumbed sooner or later near term 3 year old beautiful enough. I regretted and I've never wanted to go back, although in some cases it was extremely difficult. We all know what it means deception and how hard you get back to open your heart to a new love.
Who does not love beginnings, those true and warm your life unexpected lights and make you float so many butterflies in my stomach!
Thus arrived the other ...... the sunshine smiling with sincere eyes and a killer smile ...
When we met, the physical attraction between us was electrified, instantly I knew that we want, and the approach, although very much delayed because initially did not seem possible a relationship has far exceeded expectations. I continued in a symbiosis of natural devouring to exhaustion. We do not bore your friends this restless and exciting, because I could not sit "quietly" on the couch in one visit, for example.
We fail to see a movie together ... than with interruptions, because obviously see a movie that you keep your arms nice and if you hold in your arms ... you can not just so that the body gets it right. The nights were half white passion and mornings when I got to the office with indelible smile on his lips begin to remember moments and made me miss you until we meet again sitting on thorns. I could say I had serious problems with concentration and current issues that came into my service tasks, solving them with great effort. I was not thinking than when we would meet again, which is why my blood was "in nearly perpetual commotion."
The car became my closet with clothes, shoes and perfumes, because I had to have clothes ready every situation, and we were already one body made up of two separate pieces that could not even stay one night.
It was so until the day we moved in together when disaster began. Slowly we've seen with the same eyes, I began to see flaws and moody, there were unpleasant responsibilities shared a house sustained tension increased desire went and got the separation threshold than once ... many times I was about to give up and then I did. But we could stay away from each other? No.
After every break up the luggage and take my leave, after sweet honeymoon (or week, as applicable) reconciliation. We blamed everything was fine, we bicker all the crap, I played the thorniest aspects of a relationship, we worked to fix and we faced where I did not agree, as appropriate.
We recovered the desire hidden in a secret corner in the same great distance from us that worked every time - then I read that successfully recommend torque therapies a world-renowned specialist in couple relationships. I experienced the most eccentric fantasies together - our luck - happened to be common.
We were also jealous and indifferent, we hurt and one and another, I cried and laughed together, we had ups and downs. What caused us to be so determined to stick together and every time we go again with the same passion but the lessons learned? I felt just like us, that we belong together and that wishing that we really can build a relationship by gorgeous.
Today, in the third year of dating, holding hands walking us through the park in the middle of the night without saying a word, just present warm in the cool air of the night ... when we sat on the bench and get our arms, feeling that there is little place where the happiest human being on this earth. Stirs my senses with a consolation, we can hardly limited to gestures decent, because we are in a public space ... avidly relished near bodies in harmony with our spirits without the need of a word.
Spring is the new love in my heart. Every day you wake up with the most wonderful being a big deal for a man's mental comfort that gives wings to feel capable of anything; to climb Everest and then flying it down if you want to.
We were not easy to overcome all the deadlocks, we accept as we are and we do not boast that it will be "peace" for all, just live a love story that we have embellished it as I could, but would have been long forgotten if I had the strength to fight for her, first with ourselves, with their own fears and misconceptions.
To fall in love not only have to meet the right person, but to keep the fire of love and passion is a delicate task since moving together, in my opinion and my experience.
Experience has taught us how to make him happy on the other, how to bring them comfort you need, how to show him patience, trust, altruism and importantly, how to give him complete freedom to be himself. I learned a lot from each other and learn together to accept the things that can not be changed in order to enjoy those that unite two people grateful that met to give life a love fire.
A great thinker once said:

"Love is like a fire which both partners have to lay the wood when one ceases to lay the wood the fire goes out." Was quite right!

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WHO KNOWS Why women cry ?

" Mom, why are you crying ? " He asked a boy mom.
" Because I'm a woman," her mother replied.
" I do not understand ..."
My mother hugged and said ... " And you never will , my dear ."
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why mother crying for no reason ?"
" All women cry for no reason " ... it was all his father could to tell the boy .
The little boy grew up and became a man, but still has not found the answer to his question . Finally , God himself asks , "Lord , why women cry so easily ? "
God said : " When I made the woman I wanted it to be special .
I gave her shoulders strong enough that it can bring the world back , but gentle enough as to provide relief.
I gave her the inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that comes sometimes endure with their own children .
I gave him the strength to go on even when everyone else gives up . Hers is the strength to take care of his family , even in times of sickness and fatigue without complaining .
I gave her the sensitivity to love their child in any circumstances even if it hurt a lot.
I gave her the strength to support her husband and I created from his rib to protect his heart. I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife not ...
I was in tears ... tears hers to use them whenever needed.                                                    
See, my son , God said , "The beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she wears , the image that it has , in the way he combs his hair. The beauty of a woman can be seen in her eyes. Here is the gate that leads to her heart, the place where love lives . "



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Nothing is sweeter than stolen love!

It was Thursday and it was very hot, incredibly hot. Hairstyle not resist anymore. The hair stuck to his head, legs and bottom skirt, no air conditioning no longer cope.
I just thought the weekend comes and that's boring, we already knew what to do every minute. I was very bored and I felt very alone. And if you still ....
No, do not think, overblown yourself, you are now a married woman with children to raise. But even when convince myself, I passed through the brain thought that my husband knows not to make me vibrate long and the front of it, my fellow workers. Long corner smiling mouth when I saw it and I liked enormously do not mind me, although I knew clearly he likes.
One time at a party, talk to him about the problem and about discussing whether reincarnation really love the same person in every life. Live for the Far East and I just finished (yet again?) my book.
It passed quickly, and soon greeted me warm as usual, and I stayed with butterflies trapped in the abdomen. I knew she was alone, I knew not looking for anyone. Annoy me and I drew that do not mind me. Yet if ... pfffff, no!
Home husband informs me with a big smile on her lips that Sunday we go to lunch at his mother. And that's a joy he says it's the first time you go on Sunday - noon - his mother at the table. I smiled pretending they are on the brink of ecstasy.
I accused are lightly before thinking about the adventure, and I really tried everything? Why blame only him? Could it be that I have become boring in the marital bedroom?
Maybe we both changed. I tried it out on a walk after dinner. Refusal. I tried to make him look together in a movie (often together once we watch movies). Refusal. I expected to come to bed, I just Chanel (perfume) on me. So he came to bed, I fell asleep. It was normal to be late, but it was a league match on TV II. And actually, what I expected! This already happens when first child.
I woke up this morning (in Ciudad denial of Eve) very good mood and with a nail in the head ... If however!
And I imagined while sitting in the office and I went and heats all. And even if I decide what to do? Go ahead and tell him I want an affair with him? I'll take crazy. Excluded. I can humiliate me like this. Humiliate me? Humble? Hhhhhhmmmm, why take it as a humiliation ?
We met by chance in the hall to the coffee machine. I have skipped some words in your throat, I do not know that the brain has ordered :
- You said that your house is near a store with oriental. Where is it?
And even the next second I let my eyes down, I knew clearly that reads something instead of "oriental spices" in my eyes. And I was ashamed. What the hell? We have an age. I am a schoolgirl? Like I want to cook something Indian! Ppppffffff!
Am I entitled to vibrate, I am entitled to feel alive. I feel right on my own skin I'm a woman.
I have other uses than to see the house, children, relatives, etc..
I let my eyes down too late. Read everything they read.
- Tomorrow morning I'm home, if you want to come over for coffee and then give a round the store. At 10 would be ideal. She gave me the address and was gone.
I was like a fool next automatically. I felt super humiliated, I wanted to cry, to scream. What impression desperate I done?
Stomach pain due to nerve down after 5 minutes between my legs just imagining what might happen to his flat.
I sweat, I struggled, I suffered, I trembled all afternoon. Yes! We wanted! I wanted to go to him to do exactly what I felt, to go as safe with me as he left near the coffee machine and no longer stick never mind. Yes it have so much guts?
And who actually believed him? I ask him shop and he invited me to his home for coffee??? How do they afford it? Afford for you to read, I said and head voice, the voice would be a tight throat.
Of course I have to go to coffee with him forever. But what he thinks? I am a married woman. What he thinks, as I was I wrong husband?
Never. And I was dying of boredom??? Yes, better! But even I have to be clean, I will have no stain on the soul. I did my duty as a wife and mother. Ok! And then I told her husband that evening at dinner the next day I meet a friend in town to give a round ... are reduced. (How to get the reductions fall well anyway, and if it's adultery, see.)
E! So what? If I have to go? I could even go shopping tomorrow and Monday was no longer any bag in it. And if he asks months I was not I tell you blue in the face that I'm not a bitch goes home to someone drinking morning coffee, I really wanted to see the store. Point. Night.
The next day I do not know why I arranged it, I could swear I will not get to him. Still, I was very excited just thinking about what might come out if I go. But of course I have to go. I am a married woman who sees her job. Hearing nerve. How sure was he when he gave me the address, even thought it has to do with an adulteress.
But I could go to see store anyway. Can I get some spices and you surprise my husband cooking of Indian cuisine! Okay!
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Steps but I just went on his door and do not know why but I started to not be so well ordered. I was very depressed. I felt something when we crossed eyes and know for sure that he felt. It was a unique feeling, warm and very pleasant. Yes! I liked him and felt a terrible need to have it and I have. If it hurt and thought that I thought was not coming. Supposed to feel, I had to live.
Let's fuck my husband those who believe that if you took your wife and kids did, pay house rent and rates to get your car. God, we and us to pay our rent, rates and even raise our own children. I need someone asked me before coming home if you need to buy something for the house. I really did not need. Can I do it alone. Even know how to hunt better offers than he did!
I need someone to comfort me with his eyes when he looked at me, to see even from a non tears flowed again. I need someone to ask me what's in my heart and not in the refrigerator. Lord, as we go down like this, instead we get in other areas in a relationship? Why (after initially going on clouds of happiness) do not know than to talk about taxes, children, food, gas price etc?
Does marriage really ruin feelings??
It was in front of me. I did not realize that philosophy as I climbed the stairs and I deepened the depression worse.
There was no coffee. There were two glasses of champagne. She stretched a glass. We collided and drank thirstily. Even I was thirsty. We looked at each other very deeply. She said in a voice strangled like: You are so beautiful! I asked with a hoarse voice, approaching me from easily reaching his ear and his cheek against my cheek. "Let's not talk!" And I talked for a long time.
I do not know whether we "like two crazy love" but I felt I dreamed I vibrated, I had sex, love as though it was the first and last time in my life. I never knew I could do what I did in the morning because I had not done before. I felt like I came in and he will not quit. I felt as if my whole being in there would have been from the beginning. I like being rebuked by his long time girlfriend

"How long were you waiting? Really do not feel my posts? Really do not know the first moment you'll be mine?" But I was not there to answer her, I was somewhere in the clouds, I was a single butterfly, beautiful, happy to fly as high because I only consciousness that you fly today.
I was happy! Even happy, not stories. I stood up, my legs were shaking. I wanted to go faster. I was scared that his vision will be his. Luckily call and mobile. I mumbled something and I immediately dressed. I left.
I left as he left me near the coffee machine. Confused full. Feels no guilt. I always thought that if I cheat I have guilt over his head. Nothing. Do not feel guilty about anything, from none.


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